Mother’s Day is a day of emotional revelations and a moment to return love to all those women who shape our lives through their love, resoluteness, and sacrifice. It is not just that day on the calendar but a testament to the forever bond shared between mothers and their babies.
This celebration of mothers goes back many years when there were Greek and Roman festivals in the name of mother gods. The tradition, as celebrated today, has its origin at the beginning of the 20th century. The credit goes to Anna Jarvis, an American woman, who desired to pay homage to her mother’s memory. Due to her effort, in 1914, the United States government declared Mother’s Day officially. Since then, the custom spread all over the world and has been celebrated according to various traditions in each country.
Today, we take time to honor the selfless love and infinite sacrifices mothers make. From long nights, rocking a fussy infant to sleep, to providing wisdom through the ups and downs of life, a mother’s influence is unparalleled. Motherhood is not strictly biological; it’s characterized by unwavering love and nurturing, qualities possessed by stepmothers, grandmothers, foster mothers, and mother figures.
Mother’s Day is an opportunity for many a person to show the love that is often left unvoiced. A day for saying, “Thanks, Mom, for always being there,” and “I love you,” by utterances, actions, or simple gestures.
Each family especially celebrates Mother’s Day. Children often start the morning with breakfast in bed for their mothers, a touching yet simple gesture. Handmade cards with scribbled hearts and “I love you” messages become keepsakes. Bouquets of her favorite flowers, heartfelt letters, or small tokens of appreciation remind mothers how much they are valued. Some families plan outings, such as picnics in the park or a special dinner at their favorite restaurant. Others create some relaxing moments by giving Mom a chance to take a break from their busy routines. Even today, in the digital age, a video call with feelings can bridge distances and speak volumes of love.
While the traditions vary, the essence remains the same honor mothers and the vital role they play in society. Mother’s Day takes different hues across cultures. In Mexico, it is a lively occasion with music and family get-togethers, while the Antrosht festival marks the day with feasts prepared by children in Ethiopia. In Japan, carnations, flowers of purity and sweetness, are given to mothers by children.
Mother’s Day is never easy for everyone, because for people who have lost their mothers, the day brings back bittersweet memories. It is a time to cherish their legacy and hold on to the lessons they have taught. The day is also highly conflicting for both women desirous of motherhood and those who have lost children. These are some of the realities that make us consider approaches to Mother’s Day with empathy and inclusiveness.
At its core, Mother’s Day is about timeless, unwavering, and unconditional love. It’s reminding us to celebrate not only the mothers around us but the nurturing spirit in each of us. Whether with a phone call, a hug, or by sitting by her side, let this day be a tribute to the one who has given so much.
As we celebrate Mother’s Day, let the spirit transcend beyond this special day. We should be daily grateful that such a special bond is shared with extraordinary women who guide us, protect us, and inspire us.
